Eulogy

"Today, I remember the bright smile and kind heart of Gerald, a very dear friend who left an indelible mark on my life. His unexpected passing leaves me with tears and sorrow, but also with cherished memories of his unwavering support and compassion. The last time we spoke, you sensed I was depressed. You cautioned and rebuked me to get off that mood. You consistently threatened that you'd come look for me even if you didn't find me in Nigeria anymore. Where can you find me now, Gee? Gerald was more than just a classmate; he was a true friend, a brother and even a present help to widows and single mums with no strings attached, who showed up in times of need, offering a listening ear, comforting words and lending hands. His selflessness and kindness inspired everyone connected to him to be better versions of themselves. He was so many facets to so many people just as their peculiarities were. He was simply amazing! Though his time with us is cut short, his legacy lives on in our hearts. I will deeply miss you, but I take comfort in the knowledge that your spirit will continue to inspire me, all of us, to be kind, empathetic, and generous. Rest in peace, my dear Gerald. Your memory will continually be a blessing to me. And knowing you had this smile on your lips even in death, is a consolation. I feel there's so much to say to you, but I rest it as my aching heart keeps on pondering why you and why now. May your memory continually be a blessing to us all who knew him. Love you, Gee! Barr. Nneka Tinu Ojeaga (nee Eneke) EMHS '91 Set.... Collapse